Conscious uncoupling and co-parenting for people who are determined to find hope on the other side of divorce.

I help parents navigate divorce and co-parenting in the least painful way for their children, so they can find peace and healing instead of guilt and overwhelm.

As a spiritual teacher, my love-based approach helps neutralize the heightened emotions associated with uncoupling or co-parenting and supports you in showing up as your highest self in order to make aligned decisions during a difficult process.

Let’s be real… There’s a reason all of this is so painful. Everyone has emotional baggage and sometimes decades of unhealed relationship issues with the person they’re now trying to come to an agreement with. This shit is not easy and there’s a minefield of triggers that can easily sideline your highest intentions. Don’t stay trapped in the old painful patterns. Move past shame and blame and find peace.

Everyone has good intentions… I remove the blockages preventing you from accessing the loving solution that’s truly available right now.

Anna Demouchet, CDFA® Certified Conscious UncouplingTM & Co-Parenting Coach

Emotional healing may not sound like a fruitful or fun prospect at this point, and you may wonder why you would invest in this kind of support. The answer is; because it can free you from past and present pain and create the solid foundation you need to move forward in all aspects of your life.

Moving through divorce and co-parenting without emotional healing is an incredibly difficult process that leaves unnecessary scars and wounds that continue to fester, sometimes for decades, especially for children.

However, with this healing work, it is possible to show up as your highest self, make heart-centered, child-centered decisions and live in a way that honors the love that you had and the family that you created, beyond this difficult transition.

It’s been proven time and again with my clients that this approach allows you to find the peaceful path through the often painful financial and logistical decisions. This not only creates better emotional outcomes, but can also save you thousands of dollars and huge emotional pain for your family. 

As far as I know, there’s no one that does everything I do in the way I do it. There are lawyers and divorce coaches, counselors and financial analysts, arbitrators and mediators, but no one is suited to help with all of the financial, logistical and emotional aspects of divorce. I provide the desperately-needed holistic guidance that makes this an intuitive, supportive, and positive process with peaceful outcomes.

I also have more than a decade of experience in the financial industry as a Financial Advisor with a CDFA® designation (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®), I can help you with all of the financial aspects of divorce.

Focused and specific guidance for your family to transition into an expanded family or ease co-parenting struggles

Emotional healing during or after a break-up

Financial, logistical and emotional guidance for healing and thriving during and after a separation or divorce

The Pathway to Uncoupling

Who will you need to support you on the road to uncoupling?

Lawyers, divorce coaches, counselors, arbitrators, mediators, and financial analysts are often involved in most uncoupling experiences. The emotional strain is enough; involving so many third parties is an unnecessary complication in an already challenging situation.

Take the pain out of uncoupling and open up new possibilities.

Here’s what I’ve learned — with the right process and attention, all of these areas can be navigated with grace and peace for all involved. I have created hopeful outcomes for many clients, navigating the terrain of all of these concerns without the need for involving any other third parties, saving you stress, time, and maybe even thousands of dollars. 

You, your children, and your future family dynamic can be one of hope and even new possibility. The sooner I can support you, the more easeful your uncoupling will be — emotionally, financially, and logistically. And also, it’s not too late to heal if you didn’t feel it went well the first time — you can still find the peaceful outcome you desire.

There’s no time limit to healing. 

Two Possibilities…

You and/or your partner decide it’s time to get a divorce.
Here are two of the possible ways this can go...

Scenario A:

A Bitter End,
a.k.a. The Usual Divorce

You hire lawyers and/or a mediator, go through the emotional pain of dividing assets, parenting time, and logistics. Even with a non-contentious divorce, you likely find yourself in a painful struggle full of emotions that lasts longer and costs more than anyone would like. You “make it through,” but one or both of you is bitter, unhappy, and left with the emotional and financial aftermath of a traditional painful divorce. Your children are burdened with much of the emotional processing and often feel stuck in the middle. Co-parenting may be difficult and you may still find yourself struggling with the same emotional wounds and arguments from your marriage for years to come.

Scenario B:

Conscious Uncoupling,
The New Paradigm

You hire someone like me, a Certified Conscious UncouplingTM & Co-Parenting Coach, to help you move through the process in the most easeful way possible, keeping the best interests of you and your children at heart. You deal with the same difficult financial and logistical decisions, but instead of your emotions clouding these decisions, they are worked through and used to heal these lifelong wounds and patterns, creating deep healing and a peaceful path from which to walk forward as co-parents and as a family. Decisions are made from a space of wholeness with a win/win perspective, creating a more peaceful and expedient experience, saving you thousands of dollars, and saving you and your children years of emotional pain.

My Story

I envision a world where peace and love are part of every encounter. After my own divorce from a 10-year marriage ended with a remarkable amount of peace, love, and hope, I stepped forward with a renewed determination to take my spiritual skills and financial mediation work to the next level to support my clients in creating positive and even loving outcomes through their uncoupling and co-parenting process through conscious uncoupling.

While my situation may be different from yours, my story might inspire you to see a more hopeful outcome as you consider your future.

My Process

Any uncoupling process comes with challenges. However, it does not have to be as painful as our society would have us believe. A hopeful and even a loving future can be the result of any separation, even with children or difficult financial circumstances.

My mediation process uncovers the deeper hurts underlying the separation. I listen to the unspoken needs of everyone involved to find positive outcomes that satisfy all parties. I have been known to save people thousands of dollars, hours of heartache, and help open the door to a future where both parties can actually move forward in peace and be able to co-parent with love.

Testimonials

“This program is so liberating. I wouldn’t have gotten 10% of the benefit by just reading the [Conscious Uncoupling] book. And I would estimate I got more than twice the benefit of coaching by having you as my coach. 

“You are a gift to this Earth and to me. Thank you so much.”

– A Conscious Uncoupling Client

“I really appreciate you being present in our mediation yesterday. The sense of relief I felt as soon as I left there with a resolution was priceless. It was such a stark difference from the last meeting, where I was completely unable to communicate. I could not have got through that discussion without you!”

– A client who hired me mid-divorce when her
current mediator was not hearing what she needed.